Reach Out Because Depression Lies

When I saw the news about Robin Williams’ suicide, I immediately looked for some evidence that it was a cruel hoax.  Another fake internet death.  Then more and more news outlets were reporting the same thing and I cried.  I was devastated that someone so full of life, that made the world laugh, had succumbed to the darkness of Depression.

I first saw the phrase “Depression lies” from The Bloggess.  She is a fierce advocate of mental health causes.  She is a sufferer herself and when I read her words, it is as if they are from my own mind.  She is absolutely right, Depression lies.

Depression says:

You are worthless.

You are not worthy of love or friendship.

You never do anything right and are a failure.

You are a burden to those around you.

Everyone you love would be better off without you.

Things will never, ever get better.

And the list of lies goes on and on.

When the evil shadow of Depression is whispering in your ear, it is difficult to fight the darkness.  The darkness is all-consuming.  You are drowning in it.

It is hard to remember that you will rise from the abyss and find the light again.  You may be scared that it won’t happen but I promise you it will.  The light is there.  Waiting for you.  It will always be there.

I have struggled with depression for many years now and the awful, terrible thoughts have entered my mind.  But I keep fighting and go on.

I always find the light.

I am so grateful that I have been able to reach out to people to help me through those awful thoughts.  Through the lies of Depression.

Please, I beg you, before you act you must speak.

Speak to anyone.  Call the Suicide Hotline.

I know there will be someone who will tell you that they need and want you here.

That you matter.

That you must not leave.


Summer Camp

When the school year winds down and summer is around the corner, A and T start to prepare for summer camp.  Since Hubby and I both work full time, they need something to do in the summer to keep them from going in insane from boredom and me from going insane from two bored kids running amok while I work from home.

The preschool they went to provide a summer camp for kids and they have been going there every year.  The have a lot of space with a small pond for canoeing, tennis courts for lessons, swimming lessons everyday, horses and fun games.  They spend the entire day outside which is great for kids with seemingly endless energy.

The last few summers the kids at camp have been playing with Pokemon cards.  So to prepare for camp, A and T have to make sure their cards are all organized and ready for play.  They use their money to buy new card packs.  Apparently, it is a big deal.  This year we had to get new binders to fit their growing collection of cards.

They have also started creating cards on the computer and printing them out on photo paper.  And we must not forget the renewed interest in watching episodes of Pokemon on demand.

It’s funny because E, R and C have long outgrown the card collections but do also get a renewed interest in Pokemon at this time.  Last summer at the beach, C told A and T that he would buy them new card sets if they had what he deemed “good behavior” for a few days.  It worked as well as the bribery we usually try.

This year T has made several references to how a lot of camp kids start working as counselors once they are too old to participate as a camper.  I wonder if this is foreshadowing for what he might was to do in a few years to make money and keep busy in the summer.  We shall see.

I am very glad that they enjoy their summer camp.  A few years back they did not want to go but we made them anyway and now they love it.  I don’t know what we would do if we didn’t have such a wonderful choice for keeping them busy in the summer.


PS – My 4 year blogaversary came and went last week without fanfare.  Happy Blogaversary to me.



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#iPPP: Pumpkin Patch


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#iPPP: Halloween 2013


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