Video Laxative For Blogger Constipation

I’ve been in a funk.  Dwelling on the bad going on in the world.  I have been suffering from an ailment I like to call Blogger Constipation.

I’ve been trying to get things moving but have been failing.  Although I have a bunch of stuff up in my head, there is a blockage that is not allowing to let it flow out through my fingers.  So I asked around for help and received some good tips.  But I’m still blocked up.  Still constipated.

So I had an idea to create this Video Laxative in an attempt to cause a Blogger Blowout, if you will.

Enjoy the laxative and we’ll see what happens.

Some tips I received were:

  • Step away from the blog for awhile
  • Try being creative in other mediums
  • Surf the web
  • Read
  • Relax
  • Writing out long hand

What do you do to treat Blogger Constipation?

Calm My Crazy: Let It Go

You may have noticed that this month on Fridays my Calm My Crazy meme basically disappeared.  I didn’t really intend to have it go away silently.  But this month has been a little extra crazy.

I’ve been doing a lot of thinking and have been trying to reset my priorities.  I’ve been very overwhelmed attempting to do everything I want to and that leads to neglecting those things to which I need to attend.

I have realized that I prefer to link up with the memes hosted by others more than I like hosting my own.  So, with that realization, I decided that I needed to practice letting things go and, sadly, this meme is one thing to let go.

I created the meme to force myself to write about something good, happy, calming each week but really that only added unnecessary pressure on myself.  I can reflect on the good without writing about it or I can simply be in the moment with my family and enjoy it.  That seems more important to me than making myself write each Friday.

This space is a gift to myself.  A place where I can freely express my thoughts and feelings.  I don’t need to create rules for myself to follow as that takes some of the fun out of it.

So I will let it go.  Say goodbye.  And that will help to Calm My Crazy.

According To Denise

 

Reflections on Bloggy Boot Camp Chicago

I took off a little time from the blog after returning from Bloggy Boot Camp in Chicago.  Not only was I on information overload, I wanted to think a bit and reflect on what I learned without jumping into writing about it.  The conference itself was excellent.  I expect nothing less from The SITS Girls.  There was a ton of information and awesome speakers and much to take away.

I loved listening to people who have made a business from their blogging beginnings.  I think many of us toy with the idea of using our blog as a springboard into something more.  Some of us want to write a book or become a successful freelance writer.  Some of us are social media savvy and can use those skills to manage social media for others including big companies.  There really are so many things you can do and the Brand Edition of Bloggy Boot Camp gave us first hand accounts from those who have done all of these things.

I think I’ve mentioned before that I have thought of writing a book.  I’ve thought about a memoir type book as well as fiction.  I still think one day I will.

But one thing became clear to me after the conference.  I won’t be one that makes a living from my blog or from whatever my blog could lead to.  I have a good “day job” and no intention of leaving it.  Blogging and all that I am doing surrounding blogging is, for me, supplemental.  It is, for lack of a better word, a hobby.

That isn’t to say it is not important.  Quite the opposite.  It is very important to me and is something that I consider “mine, all mine”.  That is one reason why I wouldn’t want to make it my job.  I like that it is a getaway for me.  Something that isn’t part of the daily grind but, rather, something that I do for fun.

I see myself writing about my life and my experiences.  I see myself sharing things I love which may include products that I may partner with brands to share.  I see myself as being a brand ambassador which would mean I partner with a brand to share what I love about them on a continuing basis.  And I see myself continuing to work with The SITS Girls as a Community Lead because I love connecting with and working with such fabulous people.

I am so glad I went to Chicago for this conference.  I learned so much that I can use and learned more about myself as well.  I figured out how I wanted to refocus my energy so that my blog remains true to what I love doing.

PYHO: I Get Nervous

It came on Tuesday night.  I felt a little grumpy.  Didn’t want to deal with people.  I wasn’t sure what was wrong until I thought a little about it.

Friday I get on a plane to Chicago for the weekend.  I am going to Bloggy Boot Camp.

And I am nervous.  And it gets under my skin and makes me uncomfortable.  So I get grumpy and withdraw.

When I went to Bloggy Boot Camp in Philadelphia in May, I was also nervous.  But I had a secret weapon.  My SIL Diane from One LoCo Mommy was with me so, in my mind, if I started to freak out I could simply clam up and she could do all the talking.  I would still be social but by proxy.  It was a genius plan.

I ended up being able to communicate fine on my own and walked away from the experience with new friends.

So why am I nervous now?

I guess because I don’t have that safety net even though I didn’t really need it before.  It’s been a very long time since I hopped on a plane to a far off place all by myself.

My head knows that I will be fine.  I am looking forward to the people I will meet there.

But I’m still nervous.

Proud to be working with The SITS Girls

I wanted to let you all know that I am very proud to now be working with The SITS Girls as one of their forum leads.  I am grateful for this opportunity to work with a fabulous community of bloggers for bloggers.  They have so much information and are a great way to connect with other bloggers.

So check out The SITS Girls here.

See my bio along with other fabulous women here.

And please participate in the forums here.